Diagnosed with Breast Cancer and Scared - READ THIS!

Just found out you need surgery for your Breast Cancer and you're scared, but…. It’s Not Time For That!

Getting ready for your surgery is an emotional time.  I have been there! I get it.   Do you believe that our mood affects our health? I can tell you, 100% that it does.   When we are depressed, stressed, and tired, our bodies are not at their best.  Many admit getting sick, laying around the house, and just not feeling like doing anything.  Now compare that to the person that feels strong, optimistic, and excited!   Completely different actions, emotions, and viewpoint - right? 

It is with that same comparison that I want to talk to you about something important you need to do before surgery.  Get positive!  Please know that you are going to do GREAT!  The Dr.s are so good at what they do these days.  This is a very common surgery, one that is done every day across the nation.  In fact, did you know that 1 in 8 women will face breast cancer in their lifetime?  Let’s just say we are all in good company.  This is not a surgery that comes with high risk like other surgeries.   Be clear on that in your mind.

But how you think - how you feel - before this surgery matters.  I want you to do me a huge favor - from this moment on, anytime you have a negative or scared thought, just tell yourself “It is not time for that!”  Tell yourself in your mind - “NO.  I will not think about that - it is not the time for it.”   Put off any of that negative, awful thinking.  You know what I am talking about.  What will I do if?  But what if?   I know this advice, to some, may sound … well, dumb.  But - I had 3 surgeries, and the 2nd and harder one - I was in a good place.  I was at peace.  I didn’t allow anything negative to bounce around in my mind.  I told myself it was not time for that.   No “what ifs.”  And I recovered TWICE as fast from the more difficult surgery.  Why?  Because I was not stressed out, thinking about negative garbage. I fully believe it has to do with stress hormones, and how our body responds to what we think about. 

So do me, your family, and yourself a big favor - only happy, positive thinking right now.  OK?  Deep down, I didn’t believe it would matter.  But it really did! So my advice to you is do things you love.  That means weeks, not minutes, before surgery!  I love watching animals on Facebook and IG.   They make me laugh!  I love watching huskies talk back to their masters.  I love watching baby goats jumping around and being cute.   Set up an entire account to watch the things you love.   Keep it artificially happy, upbeat, and lively.   Unfortunately, our minds are powerful little instruments.  If we feed our thinking on the things we fear, things that will make us feel bad, we honestly weaken our ability to heal more quickly.  That’s exactly what I did on my first surgery.  So I can speak from experience.  I was wrong! This is advice from your Pink Sister on what you NEED TO DO!   Even if you feel, deep inside, this is silly (believe me, I did) - trust in it.  I promise it works!   And let your family and friends know the same thing.  Send them the link to this article.  Everyone should be talking about the good after you recover.  None of this gloom and doom thinking.   Also, I strongly recommend after reading this you check on my article about Keto.  This was helpful to me after my recovery.   It has given me hope and confidence about the future, and that I can and will be well!   You can too 💖   


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  • Colleen Dawson on

    Hi
    I do not have breast cancer. A family member is having a double mastectomy for invasive ductile cancer this week.
    They live out of town. Any constructive advice you could give me would be great.
    Thank you
    Colleen

  • Paulette Yannett on

    Just had masectomy on left side 9/16/21. Doing very well amazed no pain. Meet with doctor 9/24/21 post op. Diagnosed two weeks earlier with no history of cancer. All to do with post menopause at age of 73. Have alot of support in my community.

  • Deborah Pollak on

    I have been traumatized for 3 months waiting for something to happen. Finally, I have a surgery date.I am a wreck and am in mourning the coming loss of my large breasts. How can I become positive? I cry all the time. Kaiser has been very slow and missed this cancer from the start. I am beside myself.

  • Mara on

    Wow. This is my second bout with breast cancer and this time I’m getting a mastectomy. I have been absolutely terrified and thinking catastrophic. I’m not sure what it is about how you’ve phrased things that’s making me feel differently, but I’m doing it. I’m going to do the things that make the present enjoyable, get ready to make recovery pleasant, and count on my care team to do what they do best. Anything less? It’s Not Time for That. Thank you for this!!!

  • Pam Keith on

    I was diagnosed in June. This is the second time I have had breast cancer. They are very different cancers. I am having a double mastectomy with reconstruction in 3 days. Attitude and a great support team are the secrets to this journey. My love and support to all of you!



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